"Forgive and forget " heard that a zillion times, but can we really ?. Try as we may, pray as we must, but can we ?
My own personal experiences with the above quote is a tough one, I have tried to forgive and have always forgiven even the most hurtful one that has come my way, but forget is still something that i would love to talk about now.
How can one forget ? enlighten me on that
.Over time it has surely been forgotten, but only to realise it does hurt but no so often, and not so painfully.
Time heals all wounds is the best way to look at a hurt and dont rush to forget, if it makes you feel good, to cry over it so be it, if it makes you feel good to sulk over so be it and if it feels good to write about it(Yours truly !) so be it, BUT just a Red alert flag, dont get obsessed about it, move on in life, nothing can take away that happiness and surely no one can.
Many a time I have taken my time to forget and having done so, have realised that it is off my chest for good, but I have not put on a mask neither have I tried to rush into it, In my time, is the magic mantra, But let it go,,dont stick to it once again no one and nothing is worth your happiness.
Like a very famous hymn goes"There is a time for sowing, and reaping, time for losing, time for gain, time for sorrow, time for pain...."
My own personal experiences with the above quote is a tough one, I have tried to forgive and have always forgiven even the most hurtful one that has come my way, but forget is still something that i would love to talk about now.
How can one forget ? enlighten me on that
.Over time it has surely been forgotten, but only to realise it does hurt but no so often, and not so painfully.
Time heals all wounds is the best way to look at a hurt and dont rush to forget, if it makes you feel good, to cry over it so be it, if it makes you feel good to sulk over so be it and if it feels good to write about it(Yours truly !) so be it, BUT just a Red alert flag, dont get obsessed about it, move on in life, nothing can take away that happiness and surely no one can.
Many a time I have taken my time to forget and having done so, have realised that it is off my chest for good, but I have not put on a mask neither have I tried to rush into it, In my time, is the magic mantra, But let it go,,dont stick to it once again no one and nothing is worth your happiness.
Like a very famous hymn goes"There is a time for sowing, and reaping, time for losing, time for gain, time for sorrow, time for pain...."
