The season of Lent it is all about emerging a new person after a 40 day introspection of oneself.
Symbolic to the chick emerging ... (Easter Egg)
A long, deep look within ourselves, and we all realise that we are no angels, and that the finger that you pointed at someone,look carefully, there are three more pointing back at you.
What can we do to make ourselves better people ? dont take too big a bite, small baby steps that you can manage and do that well, which in turn will motivate you to extend your goodwork.
Make it a point to always realise that just as we think we are always right, the other side too thinks the same.. so who is right and who is wrong ? think logically it is not about wining or losing, its about coming midway and making both A & B happy.
During my younger days, I realised that it was always a better situation when both of us were happy be it sharing a box of chocolates when the number was odd,the choice of a movie, everything settled amicably was a lovely feeling, and I have always tried the same method, >Believe me !
Reconcilation, with your neighbours, friends, and near and dear ones,... many of us say"Oh, I am fine, it is he/she who will not shake a hand" if you are fine, take that all important step towards patching your relationship up, and say a "Hello" shake a hand, unburden yourself, you will feel wonderful...even better than the best work out..Believe me !
It is always nice to tell a person if he hurt you, how hurtful his words to you were, as soon as possible instead of a wound festering and rotting. A lot of misunderstanding can be cleared as most of the things that we think were said were never meant that way and quickly the matter is sorted and apologies are handed out, which is a wonderful way...Have tried this out too ! Believe me.
A long gaze, a deep look can help us live our lives simply, without complications, and a clear conscience is the softest pillow....Believe me.
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