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Sunday, October 26, 2014

LIFES JOURNEY IS NOT A BED OF ROSES

Life is a challenge and if you have conditioned yourself to believe that it will be a smooth, perfect and flawless, and a happy one...No,No,No way.
Even for a second, dont believe in that, trash away those thoughts and come down to ground zero, where you have to believe that the road, will be filled with ups and downs, sometimes, maybe more downs and no ups for a longtime to come.
You must remember, that every little challenge that comes along your way... it would make you stronger than the last  one that you faced...isn't it that way?
I do remember my first job that I went to, it was a nice place and life to me at that point of time, could not go wrong..silly me, so i thought.
A few days into the job and there was the ugly head of discontent, not by me, by a staffer who had just reported to work after two weeks of leave, she saw me as a potential threat and was  most unco operative, in whichever way that you might think ..be it directing me to complete a task that I had asked for her help or as simple as fixing the cartridge( New to all these chores).
I could not believe, the outside world was made up of all types of people, BUT it was right there staring at me  ...what do you do in a situation like this ? I took the easiest route.
I would bare my soul to my family, in between sobs at home, tried the kindness angle but no, she would not relent with her unco operative movement, in the bargain she managed to rope a few of her friends on her side.Life was getting a bit tough for my soft self.It was my first,
What did I do ?after speaking my heart out to the authority, who kind of gave me a hint  in unspoken words, that either I survive this or move to better climes.
I chose the latter and was I happy ..Of course !(Sometimes, you have to look at happiness too !)
Nothing frees oneself from unpleasant situations than moving away from it, and glad i did it, the lesson from this incident was it made me a stronger person and I was able to tackle tougher situations with ease than the previous times.The other challenges I faced were so much smaller in comparision....
When you face a challenge and overcome it, you have greater faith in yourself, in your abilities, and greater trust in the divine an now you can do something even bigger
Challenges and obstacles present all of us with the opportunity to grow and improve and learn and step outside of our comfort zone.
I do not see anything as a problem, I just see it as an opportunity to learn and grow in confidence
Visualize the outcome you want, and you will receive a solution to it, but take time to listen to the solution given to you, listen to your mind, your heart, and maybe someone you trust their advice, deduct, add and better it the best way you can ...and you will have the world on a platter.

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