How do you heal a broken heart ? kind words, motivation, spiritual advice, or your own experiences there.
Believe me its not easy to be the one with a broken heart, maybe a friendship gone wrong, maybe a back jab or maybe one of your own letting you down in whatever way, everyone has been thru this or at least one of this.
For me the best way I deal with any of this type of a situation I withdraw for a while (depends how deep the hurt is) deeper then longer waiting time, and begin an introspection where I try and sort out matters in my head and find the reason WHY ?
There definately has to be a part that I too play or played in this happening, and so in short try and find my own faults.
Going thru is also not easy my immediate defence mechanism is-" Its not my fault," but with my feet firmly planted on the ground handle it,
In the event of me being at fault try and get myself to say sorry, else have a one to one talk with the subject in question.
This has nearly always worked with me and realize that the after effects glue on to make the relationship much stronger
Whatever maybe the case, never let the sun set on your anger.
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